By Tina Schermer Sellers I put the paper down. I was 15 papers in with 17 to go – sexual autobiography assignments of my graduate family therapy students. It was the second paper I had read in the last two hours of a young woman who had pelvic pain and vaginismus. My stomach was in knots. How many of these papers have I now read in my career? She had been married three years and had been unable to have sex – it just hurt too much. She was completely freaked out about sex and hated herself for it.