• You feel guilty for not being “enough” for your spouse, but have no idea how to heal in this area enough to want sex. It’s more duty than joy.
• You resent your spouse for needing sex.
• You are compulsive about sex and take extreme risks in your sexual behavior.
• You view sex as a commodity, not as a loving act between two people.
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